{"id":772,"date":"2023-09-03T18:08:03","date_gmt":"2023-09-03T15:08:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/catalin.francu.com\/blog\/?p=772"},"modified":"2023-09-03T18:15:18","modified_gmt":"2023-09-03T15:15:18","slug":"un-comentariu-nepublicat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/catalin.francu.com\/blog\/2023\/09\/un-comentariu-nepublicat\/","title":{"rendered":"Un comentariu nepublicat"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

G4Media a publicat recent o dezbatere<\/a> privind v\u00eersta potrivit\u0103 pentru \u00eenceperea \u0219colii. Acesta este un subiect care m\u0103 preocup\u0103<\/a>. Prin grija Statului Rom\u00e2n \u00een colaps, m-am v\u0103zut obligat s\u0103 devin expert \u00een materie, c\u0103ci Statul Rom\u00e2n \u00een colaps i-a interzis fiului meu, absolvent de trei ani de gr\u0103dini\u021b\u0103, s\u0103 mearg\u0103 la \u0219coal\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Articolul pune prea mult pre\u021b pe aspectul juridic \u0219i pe opinia unui psiholog care m\u0103soar\u0103 cu micrometrul, face semn cu creta, apoi taie cu toporul<\/em>. Este inadmisibil s\u0103 \u00eencadr\u0103m to\u021bi copiii \u00eentr-o statistic\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103-i admitem sau respingem la \u0219coal\u0103 \u00een func\u021bie de o diferen\u021b\u0103 de un minut la data na\u0219terii, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-i vedem vreodat\u0103 la fa\u021b\u0103. Psihologul ignor\u0103 cu senin\u0103tate varia\u021biile enorme de la caz la caz. Articolul citeaz\u0103 judec\u0103tori \u0219i psihologi, dar ignor\u0103 opinia p\u0103rin\u021bilor, a oamenilor care au petrecut cu copilul fiecare secund\u0103 din via\u021ba sa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar, p\u00een\u0103 la urm\u0103, articolul este scris pentru cititori. \u00centr-o \u021bar\u0103 de oameni inteligen\u021bi (doar) emo\u021bional, sigur c\u0103 conteaz\u0103 doar inteligen\u021ba emo\u021bional\u0103 a copilului. Nu neg c\u0103 \u00een via\u021b\u0103 este important s\u0103-\u021bi cuno\u0219ti emo\u021bional semenii, s\u0103 intuie\u0219ti de la care po\u021bi lua bani cu \u00eemprumut f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-i dai \u00eenapoi, cine va continua s\u0103 te \u021bin\u0103 angajat de\u0219i tu nu-\u021bi faci treaba, cum s\u0103 ceri totul de la partenerul de rela\u021bie f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 dai nimic \u00eenapoi etc. (Pentru oamenii care n-au nici m\u0103car inteligen\u021b\u0103 emo\u021bional\u0103: acesta a fost sarcasm.) Dar ce ne facem cu copiii care dau semne de inteligen\u021b\u0103 real\u0103? \u00cen familia noastr\u0103, copiii da\u021bi devreme la \u0219coal\u0103 au ajuns departe, au f\u0103cut facult\u0103\u021bi de top, au avut cariere de top. V\u0103z\u00eend c\u0103 cel mic pare s\u0103 urmeze acelea\u0219i stadii, m\u0103 \u00eentreb: Cu cine a\u0219 putea vorbi care s\u0103 nu-mi serveasc\u0103 acelea\u0219i fabule obosite c\u0103 \u201ecopilul de 5 ani se va pierde \u00eentre cei de 7 ani?\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Articolul m\u0103 men\u021bioneaz\u0103 cu prenume \u0219i nume. Iar primul comentariu<\/a> m-a c\u0103lcat pe nervi, pentru c\u0103 l-am mai auzit de c\u00eeteva zeci de ori. Am dorit s\u0103-mi exprim dreptul la replic\u0103, a\u0219a c\u0103 am trimis comentariul de mai jos. G4Media nu a publicat niciodat\u0103 comentariul. B\u0103nuiesc c\u0103 li s-a p\u0103rut prea vehement. Dar vehemen\u021ba este reac\u021bia corect\u0103 c\u00eend Statul Rom\u00e2n \u00een colaps maltrateaz\u0103 copiii \u00een asentimentul unei na\u021biuni \u00eentregi. Na\u021biune pentru care am muncit 20 de ani<\/a> (\u0219i singurul lucru care NU<\/strong> mi-a folosit \u00een aceast\u0103 munc\u0103 a fost inteligen\u021ba emo\u021bional\u0103).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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@Redac\u021bia: Sec\u021biunea \u201eArgumente pro \u0219i contra\u201d con\u021bine doar argumente contra. Argumentul domnului psiholog \u201eexist\u0103 o lege\u201d denot\u0103 o g\u00eendire feudal\u0103. Au existat legi care le-au interzis unor categorii de oameni s\u0103 fie liberi sau s\u0103 voteze. Ce facem, ne crampon\u0103m \u0219i de acelea? Avem nevoie de arbitrul ra\u021biunii ca s\u0103 putem schimba o lege<\/a> care mutileaz\u0103 copiii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Studiul Eurydice \u0219i captura de ecran par pur \u0219i simplu gre\u0219ite. Rom\u00e2nia are un mare \u201e5\u201d trecut \u00een dreptul ei, ceea ce este incorect. \u0218coala nu prime\u0219te dec\u00eet copiii care au \u00eemplinit 6 ani, iar pentru a reduce pragul la 5 ani \u0219i 9 luni este nevoie de aprobarea unui for care \u0219i-a dovedit \u00een repetate r\u00eenduri incompeten\u021ba. Deci da, Rom\u00e2nia este cu un an \u00een urma lumii civilizate<\/a>. Ne d\u0103m copiii la \u0219coal\u0103 cu un an mai t\u00eerziu dec\u00eet pe noi \u00een\u0219ine, \u00een condi\u021biile \u00een care materia s-a sub\u021biat, iar IQ-ul cre\u0219te cu 3 puncte pe genera\u021bie (Efectul Flynn<\/a>).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apoi, argumentul \u201eun copil va ajunge s\u0103 fie \u00een clas\u0103 cu al\u021bii cu 2 ani mai mari\u201d este r\u0103sturnat \u00een cap. Trebuie s\u0103 ne fie mil\u0103 de to\u021bi ceilal\u021bi, care s\u00eent schingiui\u021bi intelectual, pu\u0219i s\u0103 fac\u0103 la 7 ani ce poate altul s\u0103 fac\u0103 la 5. Nu putem ca \u00een numele bullyingului s\u0103 ignor\u0103m complet dezvoltarea intelectual\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu \u00een ultimul r\u00eend, p\u0103rerismul d\u0103uneaz\u0103 grav discursului \u0219tiin\u021bific. To\u021bi acei sute de copii pe an care, din 2012, au reu\u0219it s\u0103 intre mai devreme la \u0219coal\u0103, au acum 17-16-15 ani. A f\u0103cut cineva vreun studiu pe ei? Au ajuns to\u021bi ni\u0219te narcomani rata\u021bi? Sau, mai degrab\u0103, s\u00eent oameni perfect normali? \u00cen absen\u021ba datelor, recurgem doar la opinii bazate pe nimic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

@Anida: \u00cemi permit s\u0103 traduc \u00een rom\u00e2ne\u0219te monstruozit\u0103\u021bile pe care le-a\u021bi spus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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  1. Cred c\u0103 \u0219tiu ce \u00eei trebuie unui copil pe care nu l-am v\u0103zut niciodat\u0103, mai bine dec\u00eet \u0219tiu p\u0103rin\u021bii care au petrecut fiecare or\u0103 din fiecare zi cu el, care l-au \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 citeasc\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 socoteasc\u0103 de la 5 ani.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  2. Pentru mine \u0219coala a fost o corvoad\u0103, care se exclude reciproc cu tr\u0103irea copil\u0103riei, \u0219i deci \u0219tiu 100% c\u0103 a\u0219a este pentru to\u021bi copiii.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  3. Cred c\u0103 nu s\u00eentem datori s\u0103 ne \u00eenarm\u0103m cu nimic pentru ziua de m\u00eeine \u0219i s\u0103 ne \u00eencuraj\u0103m copiii s\u0103 procedeze la fel. Tot ce conteaz\u0103, la sf\u00eer\u0219itul zilei, e c\u0103 ne-am tr\u0103it bine copil\u0103ria<\/a>.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

    Dumneavoastr\u0103, \u0219i al\u021bi oameni ca dumneavoastr\u0103, s\u00eente\u021bi motivul pentru care am plecat de la proiectul dexonline. Am avut zeci de astfel de conversa\u021bii cu oameni al c\u0103ror vot este egal cu al meu. \u0218i mi-am dat seama c\u0103 \u00eenot \u00eempotriva curentului. C\u0103 Rom\u00e2nia nu \u00ee\u0219i dore\u0219te s\u0103 fie educat\u0103. C\u0103 conduc\u0103torii Rom\u00e2niei nu s\u00eent o abera\u021bie, ci func\u021bioneaz\u0103 fix \u00een asentimentul popula\u021biei. Dar, dup\u0103 20 de ani de munc\u0103 \u00een folosul rom\u00e2nilor, nu mai pot munci nici m\u0103car o or\u0103 cu con\u0219tiin\u021ba curat\u0103, spre serviciul unor mon\u0219tri care apoi \u00eemi explic\u0103 cu emfaz\u0103 \u0219i superioritate de ce copilul meu nu are nevoie de educa\u021bie.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    G4Media a publicat recent o dezbatere privind v\u00eersta potrivit\u0103 pentru \u00eenceperea \u0219colii. Acesta este un subiect care m\u0103 preocup\u0103. Prin grija Statului Rom\u00e2n \u00een colaps, m-am v\u0103zut obligat s\u0103 devin expert \u00een materie, c\u0103ci Statul Rom\u00e2n \u00een colaps i-a interzis fiului meu, absolvent de trei ani de gr\u0103dini\u021b\u0103, s\u0103 mearg\u0103 la \u0219coal\u0103. Articolul pune prea […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"set","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-772","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/catalin.francu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/772","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/catalin.francu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/catalin.francu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catalin.francu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catalin.francu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=772"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/catalin.francu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/772\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":776,"href":"https:\/\/catalin.francu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/772\/revisions\/776"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/catalin.francu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=772"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catalin.francu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=772"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catalin.francu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=772"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}